So my quest to find a new pair began at the outlets in Delaware, with the better half's initial concurrence. As I mentioned in my previous post, there were no problems...at least until after she entered the Naturalizer store looking for me, and found me sporting a pair of really cute Mary Jane flats. The sales woman was addressing me and treating me just like "one of the girls," bringing me other shoes to try on. The better half stayed there with me, like a girlfriend would, but I suspect it was to hurry me up, not out of encouragement for her "girlfriend." I left there with no new shoes, even though the Mary Janes were cute as a button. They just didn't fit well enough to justify a price tag with three digits to the left of the decimal point. And the better half reminded me that she didn't like the fact I wear womens' shoes, let alone Mary Janes.
Then she took off shopping on her own again, while I tried two other nearby shoe stores. (For her, Christmas shops are irresistable.) My luck at the shoe stores was nil - due once again to the size 12 issue, though I had also started trying size 11's as well, at the suggestion of the Naturalizer clerk. The better half found things to buy...I didn't.
Then last Wednesday, an old friend who left my company about 5 years ago, and moved south, was in town. I joined him (and a third party, our former supervisor, now retired) for lunch in Baltimore. We had a wonderful time talking about "the good old days!" I was as masculine as possible (not very...) and nothing was said about my attire. But I know my friend noticed (the supervisor has seen me before.) Not sure where that will lead...since we don't visit much any more. But on the way home, I stopped at a couple more womens' shoe stores that I drove by. While they both had some really cute flats, that I'd wear in a heartbeat.,.such as:
The next day, I had some errands to run after visiting Mother at the nursing home. My better half apparently had mellowed regarding my preference for womens' shoes...she reminded me of two shoe stores near Mom's. I hadn't even known that they existed! The first store was a waste of time, as usual. But the second, may have been a good find...they had one pair of this cute style in stock, size 11:
I like it...should be perfect with skirts or dresses, but also look OK with jeans and capri pants. They're a bit snug, but I bought them anyway - since the pair was over $30 less than on the website. Strangely, the better half is OK with them as well. Subsequently I ordered a size 12 in this style and a size 12 flat in another style from the manufacturer's website...with a 20% discount from a coupon.
If any one of the 3 pairs fit best, they will become my newest shoes. The others will be returned... I'll update once things are settled...
I am glad to see you feeling so at ease shopping for women's shoes. I tend to freeze if I am in a woman's shoe store. Most of my shoes have been bought on line and few, if any, were over $30.ReplyDelete
I do not think that there are any women's shoes in 11.5. That would be my size. Most size 11 are too snug but I buy them anyway. I have done rather well with mail order from Newport News, Lane Bryant, Target and Haband.
It's just lately that I've been comfortable navigating women's shoe stores. Since I've given up worrying about what others think, I just go shopping. And it helps!Delete
You're apparently right - either we're categorized as an 11 or a 12...I have yet to see any 11.5's. Wonder if natal women have that same issue?
I'll post an update once I get my order from the shoe website... Both an 11 and a 12 of the same shoe will be at home, and I can try both at leisure, to see which is best!