tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483143481224034343.post4629416044339993709..comments2023-10-15T13:50:42.427-07:00Comments on From "Me" to "Mandy": Quickie - Across the bridge!Mandy Shermanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01547323395921637440noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483143481224034343.post-6030346950810454892014-02-22T12:04:35.317-08:002014-02-22T12:04:35.317-08:00And, as I neglected to add to the earlier post, yo...And, as I neglected to add to the earlier post, you are also correct that "the more often folks get out and about either fully dressed or presenting in an androgynous fashion, the more the civilian population will come to accept that folks like us are just part of the landscape." Yes, they WILL see me again!<br /><br />While my own part in this movement is small, each of us working together can help make a difference. <br /><br />MMandy Shermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01547323395921637440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483143481224034343.post-47825838736514745312014-02-22T03:45:43.098-08:002014-02-22T03:45:43.098-08:00You are correct - no problems at the dentist's...You are correct - no problems at the dentist's office. Post to follow. i know the dentist and he knows both me and my wife. Likewise the dental hygienist, who told me he took special care not to splash me and ruin my makeup! He's cool...<br /><br />I'm amazed that you wear a bra often...that sounds fun but probably won't work for me at this point. First problem being - I need one that fits...don't have it. And I need forms. I had them, but hiding them at home was too risky, so they went away. Fortunately they were cheap ones.<br /><br />So, getting a bra (and a wig fitting) are the things on my to-do list...<br /><br />M<br /><br /><br />Mandy Shermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01547323395921637440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483143481224034343.post-55866031007019900992014-02-21T06:29:58.030-08:002014-02-21T06:29:58.030-08:00The more that folks get out and about either fully...The more that folks get out and about either fully dressed or presenting in an androgeneous fashion the more the civilian population will come to accept that folks like us are just part of the landscape. I had two evening outings earlier this week to two different LGBT bars. I was nicely and neatly dressed both times in a skirt with a conservative top, blazer, evident makeup, pantyhose, 3" heels and wig. I had nice conversations with other bar stool spinners and made friends to the point that they all commented that "They GOT me" meaning that they understood that I am a regular hetero married guy who just likes to dress as a woman enjoy the safe haven afforded by the bar. These are the two places that I go to most often and I seem to be accepted...sort of a "Cheers" vibe.<br /><br />While in guy mode I do not present in an androgeneous fashion but I always have on pantyhose and often a bra and cami. More and more often I do not wear socks over my pantyhose so if anyone were paying attention they could observe my hose clad ankle. I think that this would be a big "tell" but I just do not think that people expect to see a guy exposing an ankle wearing hosiery and they just do not process that information. More and more often I an also wearing my chicken cutlets in my bra. So far as I can tell no one has picked up on the fact that I am wear a bra and cami under my shirt.<br /><br />I would think that if you presented as you described to your dentist, that he and the rest of the folks in his office would note your hair, nails and the pantyhose under you stirrups and not react any differently to you than the reaction that you regularly received when you visit your mother.<br /><br />PatPat Scaleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148601231866277374noreply@blogger.com